LOVE 101: Building Compassion in Kids
by Gwynne Spencer

Although scientific debate still rages on the topic of nurture vs. nature, I am of the opinion that the human animal is naturally violent. Other than outlawing testosterone, I just don't know any way around it. In one study of violence on the preschool playground, researchers found that the children who were denied toy guns (and other weapons) initiated four times as many aggressive incidents in play as those kids who were allowed "warmongering" toys. I've even heard from teachers about kids in classrooms who chewed their graham crackers into the shape of guns if they were denied toy weaponry. Go figure.

Here are some ways for today's parents to build a meaningful reservoir of empathy in their kids in spite of a world filled with rage and lunacy.
1. Whenever there is an act of violence on television, turn the thing off for an hour. Your family will watch approximately seven seconds of TV a day.

2. Ban video games of all kinds, not just because of their violence but because time that is spent intently gaming is NOT socializing the young animal.

3. Teach your children the power of advertising by launching your own ad campaign that assures them they are NOT going to be empowered by a visit to Wal-Mart, nor are they ratcheted up the humanitarian scale by recycling their cell phones. Buy less, be more.

4. Read them stories of compassion and kindness and selflessness like
Somebody Loves You Mr. Hatch by Eileen Spinelli (Aladdin, 1996, $5.99)
Andy and the Lion by James Daughtery (Viking Press, 1938, $12.95)
Home of the Brave, by Allen Say (Houghton Mifflin, 2002, $17)
Charlotte's Web by E.B. White (now available in a 50th anniversary retrospective unabridged audio CD collection, Listening Library, 2002, $27)

5. Plug your kids into great audio in the car. We highly recommend everything by Raffi, and storyteller Jim Weiss, as well as the Junie B. Jones series by Barbara Park and Harry Potter tapes (the movies leave so much out!)

6. Instead of self-indulgent commercially powered kidflix filled with gratuitous action-adventure that produces only adrenaline (not compassion), feed their brains on movies like: "The Secret of Roan Inish," "Contact," "Bambi" (before Disney's main purpose was selling lunchboxes), "The Black Stallion," "ET," "NeverEnding Story," "Where the Red Fern Grows," "Simon Burch," "Shrek," "Emmet Otter's Jug Band Christmas."

7. Implement service learning programs in schools to channel energy otherwise wasted on sports. For more information, contact: Kid2KidProject, www.icrichild.org

8. Have kids earn their allowance, not by doing household chores which they ought to be doing for free anyway, but on the basis of altruistic and anonymous acts of benevolence committed in the home, in the neighborhood and in the school.

9. With all that time NOT spent on TV and videogaming, your kids will have lots of time to read, building vicarious experience which is the very foundation of compassion. Feed them terrific books by Mem Fox, Rosemary Wells, Katherine Paterson, Steven Kellogg, Karen Cushman, Donna Jo Napoli, Cynthia Rylant, Beverly Cleary, Karen Hesse, Jerry Spinelli. (For a list of 101 Books Every Peaceable Kid Ought to Read, send $2 and a self-addressed stamped envelope to 101 List, PO Box 121, Mancos CO 81328).

10. Insist on an hour a week (minimum) of volunteer service at the library or school, homeless shelter or dog pound, nursing home or local clinic, making the world a better place. Grab a copy of The Kid's Guide to Service Projects: Over 500 Ideas for Young People Who Want to Make a Difference by Barbara Lewis (Free Spirit Publishing, $12.95).

Kids who grow up with a constant drone of aphorisms like "Of those to whom much is given, much is required" and "You make a living by what you get but you make a life by what you give" have the baseline expectation that they will help make the world a better place, not relentlessly pursue their own self-interest. I'm sure that someday, it will all be clear to them that doing good is like brushing your teeth—you can't just do it once in a while.

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Gwynne Spencer is author of RECIPES FOR READING, which unites picture books and recipes, and HAVE TALENT WILL TRAVEL, a set of directories that unites authors, illustrators and storytellers with schools and libraries who would like them to visit (Linworth Publishing, 800/786-5017) and the mother of two grownups, both of whom work at full-time jobs making the world a better place, one in cancer research, one in the veterinary field. She invites your comments at pengwynnes@aol.com.

Reviews

Baby Beluga
Raffi
Illustrated by Ashley Wolff
   Raffi's song about a little white whale has been given the board book treatment. The illustrations show a baby white whale, but the proportions in relation to the other creatures are a bit strange given the immense size of whales. Even with the Inuit shown as a woman, the stereotype of them living in igloos persists. 1997, Crown, $6.99. Ages 2 to 5. Reviewer: Marilyn Courtot
ISBN: 0-517-70977-5

Best Loved Stories In Song And Dance [Sound Recording]
As told by Jim Weiss
   Told and sung in typical Jim Weiss style, adventure and romance prevail in these three best-loved stories of all time. "The Twelve Dancing Princesses," "Sleeping Beauty," and "Snow White and Rose Red" are told with captivating clarity. Also included are songs, a waltz, and a minuet that are sure to inspire. Our family is always delighted with Jim's storytelling. We're especially glad that he brings such a wide range of classic literature to life in his collections. Also available in audio cassette (ISBN: 1-882513-19-3) for $9.95. 1997, Greathall Productions, $14.95. Ages 5 to 10. Reviewer: N. Robertson (Parent Council)
ISBN: 1-882513-44-4

The Black Stallion
Walter Farley
   Pulled to a desert island by a wild black stallion he has freed during a shipwreck at sea, then rescued by a southbound freighter, a seventeen year old boy befriends the horse, trains him by night, and rides him to victory in a match race. Available for more than fifty years, this story will appeal to girls and boys who dream of owning and riding a horse. 1944, Random House, $13.99. Ages 10 up. Reviewer: Marilyn Courtot
ISBN: 0-679-81343-8
ISBN: 0-394-85114-5
ISBN: 0-394-90601-2
ISBN: 0-394-83609-X
Best Books:

  • Children's Catalog, Eighteenth Edition, 2001; H.W. Wilson; United States
  • Recommended Literature: Kindergarten through Grade Twelve, 2002; California Department of Education; California
    Awards, Honors, Prizes:
  • Young Reader's Choice Awards Winner 1944 Pacific Northwest
    State Reading Lists:
  • Kentucky Bluegrass Award, 1986; Kentucky

    Blue Ribbon Blues: A Tooter Tale
    Jerry Spinelli
    Illustrated by Donna Nelson
       Jerry Spinelli has written another gem to add to the "Tooter Tales" series. This beginning reader will entertain kids in grades 1-3 as they read about Tooter and her family's move to Aunt Sally's farm. Tooter does not like farm work, but in her own determined style, she demonstrates that hard work and an imagination can bring rewards. Nelson's illustrations bring detail and humor to this inspiring story that features a strong female character. 1998, Random House, $3.99. Ages 5 to 8. Reviewer: Sue Reichard
    ISBN: 0-679-98753-3
    ISBN: 0-679-88753-9

    Charlotte's Web
    E.B. White
    Read by E.B. White
       Books that families frequently choose for read-alouds have a high probability of working in audio form. Just in time for its 50th anniversary, Charlotte's Web makes a CD appearance, performed by the author, E.B. White (3 CDs; 3.5 hours; unabridged). Eudora Wealty once called this book "just about perfect" and E.B. White's unassuming reading lets the magical story speak for itself. White begins this recording warmly, "This is a story of the barn. I wrote it for children and to amuse myself. It is called Charlotte's Web and I will read it to you." He proceeds in a steady voice, inviting us into the story of Charlotte, a devoted spider and writer who saves her pig friend, Wilbur, from certain death. White's affection for his unforgettable characters is clear whether he is accenting the goose's strange triple-repeated speech, or dramatizing Templeton's sullenness. Though White's voice is understated, the wide range of the book's emotions and tones comes through. Following the story is a retrospective essay by noted scholar, Peter Neumeyer. He writes about White's life, his beliefs, his difficulties in writing this book, and his thoughts about the important things in life. The essay will be best enjoyed by older children and adults, but should not make anyone too antsy as it is short, well-written, and well-delivered by George Plimpton. 2002, Listening Library, Ages 7 up, $27.00. Reviewer: Susie Wilde
    ISBN: 0-8072-0852-3

    Down By the Bay
    Raffi
    Illustrated by Nadine Bernard Westcott
       Songs encourage listening skills and they also encourage little ones to join in, which in turn increases their verbal skills. Raffi has entertained thousands of kids with his versions of classic songs. In this one, reproduced in board book form, he makes lots of nonsense rhymes to fit the music of Down By the Bay. The illustrations by Westcott are as zany as the lyrics. Music and words are printed together on the last page. Other board book songs by Raffi include Baby Beluga, Wheels on the Bus, and Five Little Ducks. 1999, Crown, $9.95 and $6.99. Ages 2 up. Reviewer: Marilyn Courtot
    ISBN: 0-517-56644-3

    Egyptian Treasures, Mummies And Myths [Sound Recording]
    As created and told by Jim Weiss
       Egyptian myths come alive as master storyteller Jim Weiss weaves the stories of Isis, Ra-Amun, the pyramid builders, and more. Six original stories created by Weiss fill an hour with mystery, suspense, surprise, and humor. The seventh story, "The Mummy's Tomb" is based on a true story of archeological discovery and treasure hunting. 1999, Greathall Productions, $14.95. Ages 5 to 12. Reviewer: N. Robertson (Parent Council)
    ISBN: 1-882513-47-9
    ISBN: 1-882513-22-3

    Fairytale Favorites In Story And Song [Sound Recording]
    As told by Jim Weiss
       A delightful and frequently humorous adaptation of four fairy tales: "Stone Soup," Puss in Boots," "The Shoemaker and the Elves," and "Rapunzel." Narrated and sung by award-winning storyteller Jim Weiss. If your child(ren) enjoy listening to stories, they are sure to enjoy this tape. If not, this tape could kindle their interest. Fun for the whole family! 1993, Greathall Productions, $9.95. Ages 3 to 8. Reviewer: M. Thomas (Parent Council)
    ISBN: 1-882513-126

    Five Little Ducks
    Raffi
    Illustrated by Ariane Dewey
       Raffi has entertained thousands of kids with his versions of classic songs. In this one, reproduced in board book form, stylized ducks hide and swim among the water lilies with big mama duck. The outing begins with five little ducks who one by one fail to return home. Mother duck is sad because she is all alone--and kids will note the passage of fall and winter. One fine spring day when she sets out again, she is soon joined by her brood of five with their own families in tow. Unlike Down by the Bay, which is in this same series, the music is not provided. Also available are Wheels on the Bus and Baby Beluga. Note: For kids who might worry, ducks can care for themselves within hours of hatching. 1999, Crown, $6.99. Ages 2 to 4. Reviewer: Marilyn Courtot
    ISBN: 0-517-80057-8
    Best Books:

  • Recommended Literature: Kindergarten through Grade Twelve, 2002; California Department of Education; California

    Galileo And The Stargazers [Sound Recording]
    As created and told by Jim Weiss
       The delightfully captivating storytelling of Jim Weiss brings great scientists and their discoveries to life for all listeners. The humorous story of the great Archimedes and his displacement theory is told in a manner which takes dry history and creates drama that can encourage kids to find out more. Other stories feature Galileo, Ptolemy, Copernicus, Kepler, Brahe, and Isaac Newton. 1999, Greathall Productions, $14.95. Ages 3 to 12. Reviewer: N. Robertson (Parent Council)
    ISBN: 1-882513-46-0
    ISBN: 1-882513-21-5

    Giants!: A Colossal Collection Of Tales & Tunes [Sound Recording]
    As told by Jim Weiss
       Jim Weiss is on to something big with some familiar ("Jack and the Beanstalk") and some not-so-familiar ("Finn MacCool and the Selfish Giant") tales. Two great songs are included featuring Weiss himself. A truly multi-talented man who can bring any tale to life. 1996, Greathall Productions, $9.95. Ages 3 to 10. Reviewer: N. Robertson (Parent Council)
    ISBN: 1-882513-17-7

    Home Of The Brave
    Allen Say
       When his kayak overturns, a man has a mystical encounter with two children. They take him to an internment camp for Japanese in World War II, where masses of children with nametags chant "Take us home." He finds his name, which is also his father's on one tag; his mother's on another. He awakens on a riverbank to reality, with other children of today. But still there are mysterious nametags that fly away like birds, "home." The inherent mystery of this allegory is made no clearer in the sequence of full-page naturalistic paintings facing the pages of text, contributing an emotional content as they visualize the words. Gray-greens dominate the barren landscapes and even tint the sky. The line of empty barracks in the camp is particularly depressing. We are invited to create our own interpretation, but Say tells us that he was provoked on this personal journey by an exhibition about the internment camps in which 120,000 Japanese Americans were imprisoned. An introduction to this important chapter of our history. 2002, Walter Lorraine Books/Houghton Mifflin, $17.00. Ages 6 up. Reviewers: Ken Marantz and Sylvia Marantz

       While kayaking, a man has an accident that tosses him over a waterfall. "The churning water tore away the kayak and paddle, his helmet and life jacket." Swept away into an underground river, with hope and strength depleted, the man finds himself in a cave with a single shaft of light. He climbs up a ladder to what looks like an Indian pueblo. There he finds two small children with tags on their coats. The man assumes the children, like him, are lost. He and the children travel ultimately, not to a desert town, but to a World War II Japanese internment camp. The raw emotion is conveyed metaphorically in understated language and powerful, poignant portraits of people, isolation, desolate landscapes and muted colors. When the Japanese Americans return home, symbolically depicted as tags caught on the wind, hope and color creep back into the final watercolor. Inspired by an exhibition at the Japanese American National Museum in Los Angeles, the author-illustrator explores a difficult-to-understand period of U.S. history, not from a factual perspective but from a visceral, emotional one. In doing so, Say makes a powerful statement as he continues to explore his Japanese American heritage. 2002, Houghton Mifflin, $17.00. Ages 9 up. Reviewer: Maria Salvadore
    ISBN: 0-618-21223-X Best Books:

  • Publishers Weekly Book Review Stars, February 25, 2002; Cahners; United States

    Junie B., First Grader: Boss Of Lunch
    Barbara Park
    Illustrated by Denise Brunkus
       In the nineteenth entry in the "Junie B. Jones" series, Junie has moved on to first grade and is keeping a journal. Several entries are included in the text, along with a blue ribbon bookmark. Junie loves her new lunchbox and can't keep from opening it, which occasions a class argument about which is better, "bought" or "brought" lunch. When Junie discovers that a beloved aide from kindergarten is now working in the cafeteria, she is able, somewhat improbably but never mind, to help out behind the counter. She gets her own hairnet, plastic "mitts," and a chance to lord it over her classmates, which she does, calling the lunch of the day "tuna noodle stinkle." That makes her lose her job. Fans of the irrepressible and precocious six-year-old will lap up this morsel, but it, like a cheese doodle, lacks much substance or nutritional value. 2002, Random House, $11.95. Ages 6 to 9. Reviewer: Susan Hepler
    ISBN: 0-375-81517-1
    ISBN: 0-375-91517-6

    Junie B., First Grader (At Last!)
    Barbara Park
    Illustrated by Denise Brunkus
       This chapter book is the most recent book in "The Junie B. Jones Series." Junie B. brings her saucy, irreverent, honest humor to first grade and so copes with a number of upsetting surprises. Her "bestest friend" from kindergarten Lucille (a pretty Southern-belle type) has dumped her for new friends. Grace, her old bus buddy, has taken up with a new bus buddy. Junie sits next to "goodie-two-shoes" May in class, who finds nothing but fault with Junie. And worst of all, Junie discovers she needs glasses! Fortunately, she gets help with her problems. Mr. Scary, her new teacher, helps solve the eye mystery, and a new friend, Herb, saves Junie from humiliation. The book includes Junie's forthright entries in her school journal (though it seems premature to ask students to start a journal the second day of first grade and for Junie to correct her spelling of mustache). The book captures Junie B.'s particular way of speaking, grammatical oversights included. Young readers should have fun with precocious Junie B., though first graders may need to have the story read to them. The illustrations are on the mark in interpreting some amusing and dramatic scenes. 2001, Stepping Stone/Random House, $11.95 and $17.95. Ages 7 to 10. Reviewer: Carol Raker Collins
    ISBN: 0-375-80293-2
    ISBN: 0-375-90293-7
    ISBN: 0-375-81516-3

    Junie B. Jones Is A Graduation Girl
    Barbara Park
    Illustrated by Denise Brunkus
       Delightful--this new edition to the "Junie B. Jones" series is simply delightful. It is a great read for both young and old. In this book, Junie B. is graduating from kindergarten, and with all of her quirks and penchant for trouble, she stirs up a hilarious story. This is a great book for those young readers who, like Junie B, are afraid of moving on to first grade or for those just beginning school and want to learn more about the mysterious world of kindergarten. Learn along with Junie B. as she discovers what a cap and gown are and what a diploma is. Then, laugh along with her as she attempts to keep her white cap and gown from getting dirty, which she soon discovers is an impossible feat, especially when there is grape juice around. This Junie B. book, as well as the other books in the series, is sure to entertain. 2001, Random House, $11.99 and $3.99. Ages 4 to 7. Reviewer: Sheree Van Vreede
    ISBN: 0-375-90292-9
    ISBN: 0-375-80292-4

    Junie B. Jones Smells Something Fishy
    Barbara Park
    Illustrated by Denise Brunkus
       Junie B. Jones, the funny kindergartner, is back. It's pet day at school, but she can't just bring any pet. Junie wants to bring her dog, but the rules say caged animals only. Although she is allowed to bring a picture, she wants to bring a real animal. Will it be Grandma Miller's bird she hates, a worm she can't find, or a dead fly? When Grandma and Grandpa return from a fishing trip with a huge large-mouthed bass, Junie thinks her problem is solved. Then Grandma steals her new pet. Finally, in the freezer of all places, Junie finds the perfect pet: a fish stick. Young readers may enjoy this silly story about a demanding little girl, but be aware that her improper English doesn't set the best example for writing and speaking. 1998, Random House, $3.99. Ages 6 to 9. Reviewer: Tracy Defina
    ISBN: 0-679-99130-1
    ISBN: 0-679-89130-7

    Knots in My Yo-Yo String: The Autobiography of a Kid
    Jerry Spinelli
       Newbery medallist Spinelli steers readers through his early life. He seems to enjoy the journey himself, filling it with the same kind of sensory descriptions, humor, thought, and feelings that make his novels so popular. Spinelli's growing up seems common enough--he played war, cowboy, and later, all sports. He yo-yoed, loved his dog, and later, discovered girls and kissing. It's the telling that makes all the difference. Spinelli's early life was filled with fascinating characters, many of whom have made their way into his novels. The events he describes may not be extraordinary, but his intriguing and reflective insights seem so. 1999, Knopf, $16.99 and $9.99. Ages 9 to 12. Reviewer: Susie Wilde

       When a student asked him, "Do you think being a kid helped you become a writer?" Spinelli's response was "Yes, I believe it did." And so, he has given us a readable and engaging memoir of his childhood. He discusses family, friends, his feelings and his activities. He tells us things he is proud of, embarrassed by, and ashamed of but never becomes preachy. The simple map of Norristown, PA highlights the houses and sites that he discusses in the text. He has given us a view of growing up in mid-twentieth century America that is both universal and personal. Readers familiar with his books will discover the scenes and events that have influenced his writings. It is a great way for students to learn how an author uses his experiences to create a new story. Teachers can use Spinelli's list of "Sixteen Things I Wished I Could Do" to inspire students to write. 1998, Knopf, $15.99 and $9.99. Ages 9 to 12. Reviewer: Sharon Salluzzo
    ISBN: 0-679-88791-1
    ISBN: 0-679-98791-6
    Best Books:
    The Best Children's Books of the Year, 1999; Bank Street College of Education; United States

  • Books in the Middle: Outstanding Books, 1998; Voice of Youth Advocates; United States
  • Children's Catalog, Eighteenth Edition, 2001; H.W. Wilson; United States
  • Middle And Junior High School Library Catalog, Eighth Edition, 2000; H.W. Wilson; United States
  • Publishers Weekly Book Review Stars, April 1998; Cahners; United States
  • Recommended Literature: Kindergarten through Grade Twelve, 2002; California Department of Education; California
    State Reading Lists:
  • Maryland Children's Book Award, 2002; Maryland
  • The Sasquatch Reading Award, 2002; Washington

    Like Me And You
    Illustrated by Lillian Hoban
    Words and music by Raffi and Debi Pike
       A simple text and illustrations of children worldwide are put to music to show that although we are all different, we are also similar. Authentic costumes, building styles, and geography promote environmental awareness as well as a quick lesson in naming countries. 1996, Crown, $5.99. Ages 3 to 10. Reviewer: L. Matison (Parent Council)
    ISBN: 0-517-88552-2

    Loser
    Jerry Spinelli
       Donald Zinkoff is the overly enthusiastic weird kid we all knew in school. His impulsive and obnoxious behavior makes him stand out in the class as the loser. He fits in well at home but at school there are very few friends. He makes up imaginary friends along his father's postal route who eventually become known to him. In the end, Zinkoff does something heroic but, as usual, goes way too far. So does this make him a hero or a buffoon? Spinelli draws this picture of an outsider in school and does so without making him pitiable or laughable. The writing gets into Zinkoff's head and shows us what it would be like to be that kid. I felt reaffirmed that there is a place in this world for everyone--even Zinkoff. 2002, HarperCollins, $15.99. Ages 7 to 10.Reviewer: Joan Kindig
    ISBN: 0-06-000193-3
    ISBN: 0-06-000483-5
    ISBN: 0-06-000193-3
    ISBN: 0-06-000483-5
    Best Books:

  • Publishers Weekly Book Review Stars, February 2002; Cahners; United States

    The Magic Hat
    Mem Fox
    Illustrated by Tricia Tusa
       Oh, the magic hat, the magic hat! It moved like this, it moved like that!" It appears from nowhere, landing on unsuspecting heads, transforming the people it lands on into a toad, a baboon, and other creatures we can try to guess ahead of time from the rhymes. The kids seem to be enjoying the fun until a mischievous wizard appears to change the people back, then take the hat away with him. What he leaves behind and what the hat does to him leaves the ending open for speculation. Tusa's animated colored drawings create double-page scenes filled with details and folks with personality galore. All move in dance-like joy to the infectious rhythm of the rhyme. 2002, Harcourt, $16.00. Ages 3 to 7. Reviewer: Ken Marantz and Sylvia Marantz
    ISBN: 0-15-201025-4

    McDuff Saves the Day
    Rosemary Wells
    Illustrations by Susan Jeffers
       In this humorous tale of mischief and stolen lunches, Rosemary Wells and Susan Jeffers team up to bring us another installment in the "McDuff" series. The plucky little Westie, having previously appeared in several books, once again displays his loving and curious nature in this latest children's book. McDuff and his human family are off to Lake Ocarina for a Fourth of July picnic. After a long ride with the baby and the basket of fried chicken, the group finally arrives at the lake. Fred and Lucy proceed to set up all the equipment that is necessary for a baby (including the Handy Dandy Foldaway Baby Emergency Travel Kit) while McDuff is to guard the picnic lunch. Others have their eyes on the family's picnic, however; McDuff does not see the hundreds of ants who have come to steal the picnic. The ants quickly make away with the food, leaving everyone with hungry, empty stomachs. McDuff decides to do some exploring and befriends with Mr. DiMaggio, an elderly gentleman who is alone on the Fourth of July. Mr. DiMaggio graciously shares his picnic and Fred and Lucy share their company. Wells' amusing writing style and Jeffers' beautiful illustrations continue to bring McDuff to life. Fans who have enjoyed the McDuff stories will not be disappointed by this latest tale. 2002, Hyperion Books for Children, Ages 3 to 7, $14.99. Reviewer: Christine Amyot
    ISBN: 0-7868-0644-3

    The Mysterious Tadpole
    Steven Kellogg
       It is rare that an author can improve a classic. But Steven Kellogg has achieved that rarity with this 25th anniversary update of his timeless tale. There are some new plot twists but perhaps most striking are the sharp, compelling illustrations, featuring colors sure to catch and hold the attention of the most fidgety young reader. In the story, Louis' uncle brings him a seemingly innocuous gift from Scotland - a tadpole. But soon, Louis and everyone else discover that his new pet, Alphonse, is no ordinary tadpole. The orange and green amphibian soon grows, and grows, seemingly with no end in sight. Alphonse outgrows Louis' house and a high school swim team's swimming pool. Alphonse's size puzzles everyone, until a connection is made between Louis' pet and Scotland's famous Loch Ness and its renowned underwater inhabitant. Eventually, Alphonse finds a home with plenty of room, which may prove auspicious after Uncle McAllister returns from Scotland with a second pet for his nephew. This story is simply delightful and will continue to charm young readers for years to come. With such an impressive 25th anniversary edition, we can only imagine what wonders the 50th anniversary will hold for fans of this title. 2002, Dial Books for Young Readers, Ages 3 to 6, $16.99. Reviewer: Bruce Adelson
    ISBN: 0-8037-2788-7

    Mystery! Mystery! [Sound Recording]
    As told by Jim Weiss
       Fun listening! What a great tape for increasing listening, thinking, and imagination skills while having fun. Good sound effects, and some interesting information about the mysteries and their authors. This tape would be a "super time-passer" for a trip. 1993, Greathall Productions, $9.95. Ages 8 to 12. Reviewer: M. Kleven (Parent Council)
    ISBN: 1-882513-13-4

    Reading Magic: Why Reading Aloud to Our Children Will Change Their Lives Forever Mem Fox
    Illustrations by Judy Horacek
       Here is an amazing new book by Mem Fox, an author who has proven herself many times in the children's books she's written and the literacy teaching she's done. Mem Fox, whose parents were Christian missionaries, has declared herself a "missionary for literacy," just like Oprah. Her new book, Reading Magic is subtitled Why Reading Aloud to Our Children Will Change Their Lives Forever. It's a weighty title, but Fox's delivery is so breezy and anecdotal that you hardly notice the theories when they pop up. That's also because she translates these ideas into practical, comforting advice. Fox tells readers that children need to hear a thousand stories read aloud before they read for themselves. Then she notes that three stories a day "deliver us a thousand stories in one year." She suggests "one favorite, one familiar and one new, but," she adds, "reading the same book three times is also fine." Fox describes reading together as a delicious "chocolate" kind of experience. The kind that can't be matched by television because it gives children a chance to talk back. The kind that develops a private family language through shared book experiences. She gives techniques for making reading aloud a dramatic and satisfying event. Fox explains the three magics children need to understand before they can read alone, and she shows how reading aloud unites these three: the magic of print, the magic of language, and the magic of general experience. 2001, Harcourt, $23.00 and $12.00. Ages adult. Reviewer: Susie Wilde
    ISBN: 0-15-601076-3
    ISBN: 0-15-100624-5
    Best Books:

  • Children's Catalog, Eighteenth Edition, Supplement, 2002; H.W. Wilson; United States

    Ruby's Beauty Shop
    Rosemary Wells
       Max, that little bunny who is the perfect alter ego for any young child, gets into the act when his sister Ruby plays beauty shop with her friend Louise. Louise has arrived at their house with her Deluxe Beauty Kit and, as usual, the author captures the playful antics of the bunnies in a manner sure to resonate with kids. With a minimum of words, she draws the reader into the imaginary play of the three friends. At first Ruby and Louise give Max a blonde bombshell makeover and the illustrations accompanying Max's transformation will have kids laughing. But then, while the two girls are busy playing make-believe, Max decides to create his own look. When Grandma calls, Ruby wants to do her nails and Louise is ready to do her makeup, but Grandma makes the appointment with Max. He gives Grandma a "Completely-New-You Makeover" and declares her to be "Gorgeous!" This is the perfect book for first graders. 2002, Viking/Penguin Putnam, Ages 3 to 8, $15.99. Reviewer: Carolyn Mott Ford
    ISBN: 0-670-03553-X

    The Same Stuff as Stars
    Katherine Paterson
       On a universal scale, the life of a single child seems insignificant, but to a child, that life is a universe. Katherine Paterson's newest novel, The Same Stuff as Stars, explores the extraordinary circumstances that some children endure. The story is set in northern New England so that the reader not only understands the isolation this child endures, but also the loss for which she seeks to find resolution. Though only eleven years old, Angel has already dealt with a lifetime of problems. Abandoned by her mother and with her father in jail, she must take care of her younger brother and her great-grandmother. While she finds daily life both unrewarding and draining, Angel makes sure that she and her brother are at least attending school and healthy. She has only one thing to look forward to: more starry nights when she can sneak out and learn about the stars. Although this novel sounds depressing, it is a warm and thought provoking story. Paterson captures the same emotion and integrity as she does in her other acclaimed novels by offering positive closure to a very real situation. It shows much promise for being another award-winning Paterson novel. 2002, Clarion Books, Ages 12 to 16, $15.00. Reviewer: Christine Ballard
    ISBN: 0-618-24744-0

    The Spider on the Floor
    Raffi
    Illustrated by True Kelley
       Don't forget to sing to your kids. Even if you're tone deaf, they'll love it! It's such a thrill to hear babies murmur little bits of songs you've sung together, maybe even songs that were once sung to you. Raffi fans will welcome a ninth "Song to Read" book. His version of Spider on the Floor is playfully illustrated by True Kelley. 1993, Crown, $13.00 and $5.99. Ages 1 to 5. Reviewer: Susie Wilde
    ISBN: 0-517-59381-5
    ISBN: 0-517-88553-0

    Stargirl
    Jerry Spinelli
       In Spinelli's newest novel, Stargirl, the character matches standards he has previously set. Stargirl is the main character of the novel. And that is her real name...at least temporarily, for she is given to changing her name to match her current philosophical and personality bent. When the viewpoint character, Leo Borlock, sees her for the first time he notices her huge eyes that look like deer's eyes caught in headlights. And this is an appropriate image when Stargirl enters a public high school that is not exactly a hotbed of nonconformity. It is not just appearance that makes her so different--Stargirl embodies the random-acts-of-kindness approach to life and can not understand the us/them divisions so crucial to high school life. Most of the school turns against Stargirl, who becomes a cheerleader and applauds both teams. This special brand of cheering first brought the team success, but when they fail, she is the obvious scapegoat. Leo, the boy who tells the story, falls in love with Stargirl despite trying to resist. He is swept into a painful conflict. Should he let himself be who he really is and love her, or continue his comfortable, conformist existence? Stargirl, who loves him back, tries to conform but the results are disastrous. Most of Spinelli's books have an underlying theme of conformity. In Stargirl the theme becomes the plot and its effects are devastating. When Stargirl is driven out of town by the cruelties of conformity, Leo is left alone and lonely. The last chapter shows him grown, living by himself, citing the changes in the high school ("Today's Electron marching band is probably the only one in Arizona with a ukulele") and living each day remembering Stargirl and wondering if he will ever have another chance. 2000, Knopf, $15.95. Ages 10 up. Reviewer: Susie Wilde

       The new girl at Mica Area High School--MAHS for short--is unlike anyone Leo has ever encountered. She wears outlandish outfits, brings her pet rat to school, and sings "Happy Birthday" to students in the cafeteria, accompanying herself on her ukulele. Her family has no television set. She calls herself Stargirl, and no one will talk to her. Then an amazing thing happens, and the girl who everyone ignored becomes the most popular student at MAHS. Individuality awakens--nonconformity is accepted. Stargirl is the opposite of cool; she holds nothing back. And she loves Leo. Together Leo and Stargirl practice random acts of kindness, attempting to live as perhaps human beings were meant to. But when Stargirl is seen cheering for the opposing basketball team, everyone turns against her again. This time Leo is also a target of the students' hostile behavior. He tries to change Stargirl, to make her normal and popular. Magical girls are as rare as stars in the hand, and in the end, Stargirl must follow her own path, without Leo. It is a path that Leo sadly reminisces about years later. This book is a wonderful commentary on the beauty and dignity of humanity, as well as the difficulty in being unique in a society of joiners. 2000, Borzoi Books/Knopf, $17.99 and $15.95. Ages 10 up. Reviewer: Christopher Moning

       The new girl at high school is different and full of pluck, but the other students don't know how to take her--so they shun her. The first-person narrator, Leo, is crazy about Stargirl but can't handle the ostracism, and so he starts asking her to change. Newbery Medalist Jerry Spinelli has created a situation familiar to teenagers and provided a thought-provoking conclusion. 2000, Knopf, $15.95. Ages 11 up. Reviewer: Mary Quattlebaum
    ISBN: 0-679-88637-0
    ISBN: 0-679-98637-5
    Best Books:

  • Best Books for Young Adults, 2001; American Library Association-YALSA; United States
  • The Best Children's Books of the Year, 2001; Bank Street College of Education; United States
  • Capitol Choices, 2000; The Capitol Choices Committee; United States
  • Middle And Junior High School Library Catalog, Supplement to the Eighth Edition, 2001; H.W. Wilson; United States
  • Not Just for Children Any More, 2001; Children's Book Council; United States
  • Parent's Guide to Children's Media, 2000; Parent's Guide to Children's Media, Inc.; United States
  • Publishers Weekly Book Review Stars, June 2000; Cahners; United States
    Awards, Honors, Prizes:
  • ABC Children's Booksellers Choices Award Winner 2001 Young Adult Readers United States
  • American Booksellers Book Sense Book of the Year (ABBY) Award Finalist 2001 Children United States
    State Reading Lists:
  • Black-Eyed Susan Book Award Nominees, 2003; Maryland
  • Dorothy Canfield Fisher Children's Book Award, 2001-2002; Vermont
  • Kentucky Bluegrass Award, 2001-2002; Kentucky
  • Lone Star Reading List, 2001-2002; Texas
  • Maine Student Book Award, 2001-2002; Maine
  • Pacific Northwest Young Readers Choice Award, 2003; Pacific Northwest
  • Rebecca Caudill Young Readers' Book Award, 2003; Illinois
  • South Carolina Book Awards, 2003; South Carolina
  • Utah Children's Book Awards, 2002; Utah

    Sweet Dreams: Enchanting Story Visualizations With Sleepytime Music [Sound Recording]
    As created and told by Jim Weiss
       If your child enjoys being soothed by calm stories at bedtime, this is for you. If you've never tried audio tapes, this could be the one to start with. In a clear and quiet voice, Jim Weiss tells six soothing stories based on themes from nature and from such favorite images as an old-fashioned toy store. This tape is a gift idea that is sure to please. 1998, Greathall Productions, $9.95. Ages 3 mo. to 8. Reviewer: A. Braga (Parent Council)
    ISBN: 1-882513-20-7

    Wringer
    Jerry Spinelli
       Palmer is in heaven. He has reached the age of nine and the local gang members have deigned to come to his birthday party. After the "Treatment," Palmer changes and even joins the taunting of his younger neighbor Dorothy. Through it all, Palmer worries about become a Wringer. At the age of ten, boys in the town help out at the pigeon shoot by wringing the necks of the wounded birds. To make matters worse, Palmer befriends a pigeon that becomes his pet. He must keep its presence hidden from the gang and his family. Only Dorothy shares his secret. The story moves at a fast pace and the tension never lets up. Palmer's final epiphany is a welcome relief. 1997, HarperCollins, $13.95 and $13.89. Ages 10 up. Reviewer: Marilyn Courtot
    ISBN: 0-06-024913-7
    ISBN: 0-06-024914-5
    Best Books:

  • Adventuring with Books: A Booklist for Pre-K--Grade 6, 12th Edition, 1999; National Council of Teachers of English; United States
  • Books in the Middle: Outstanding Books, 1997; Voice of Youth Advocates; United States
  • Capitol Choices, 1997; The Capitol Choices Committee; United States
  • Children's Catalog, Eighteenth Edition, 2001; H.W. Wilson; United States
  • The Children's Literature Choice List, 1998; Children's Literature; United States
  • Dealing with Alienation, 2000; Bank Street College of Education; United States
  • Editors' Choice: Books for Youth, 1997; American Library Association-Booklist; United States
  • Fanfare Honor List, 1997; Horn Book; United States
  • Middle And Junior High School Library Catalog, Eighth Edition, 2000; H.W. Wilson; United States
  • Notable Books for Children, 1998; American Library Association-ALSC; United States
  • Notable Children's Books in the Language Arts, 1998; National Council of Teachers of English; United States
  • Publishers Weekly Book Review Stars, June 1997; Cahners; United States
  • Recommended Literature: Kindergarten through Grade Twelve, 2002; California Department of Education; California
  • School Library Journal Book Review Stars, September 1997; Cahners; United States
  • School Library Journal: Best Books, 1997; Cahners; United States
    Awards, Honors, Prizes:
  • Carolyn W. Field Award Winner 1998 United States
  • John Newbery Medal Honor Book 1998 United States
  • The Josette Frank Award Winner 1997 United States
  • Maine Student Book Award Second Place 1998 Maine
    State Reading Lists:
  • Black-Eyed Susan Book Award Nominees, 2000; Maryland
  • Buckeye Children's Book Award, 2001; Ohio
  • Charlie May Simon Children's Book Award Reading List, 1999-2000; Arkansas
  • Flicker Tale Children's Book Award, 1999; North Dakota
  • Georgia Children's Literature Awards, 1999; Georgia
  • Indian Paintbrush Book Award, 2000; Wyoming
  • Maine Student Book Award, 1998-1999; Maine
  • Prairie Pasque Award, 2000; South Dakota
  • South Carolina Book Awards, 2000; South Carolina
  • William Allen White Children's Book Award, 1999-2000; Kansas

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